How to overcome your insecurities

 October 14, 2016

How to overcome your insecurities

            As people and artist, we’ve all experienced some sort of agony in our lives at one point. We all come from different backgrounds and walks of life. Some of these damages have been inherited throughout our lives. Allowing it to build up angst and shape us into the people we are today. I’ve struggled a lot with my insecurities growing up; it conflicted with my creativity and outlook on life. I often see talented individuals who are gifted in many creative areas. However, some artists are afraid of their insecurities, which hinder their ability to create. I’m guilty of this problem as well but I’ve learned some things that have helped me overcome this issue. I think one of the biggest key points to tackle this problem is to not compare yourself to others. That’s a huge problem many artists including myself have a tough time dealing with. Another big key is to not let other people’s opinions bring you down, to avoid any negative comments. These two points have helped me with my art and my personal life; I hope that it will do the same for you.

            I think many of us want to be praised for the work we create, however that’s not always the case. We can simply be let down by harsh comments that bring us to a low point instantly. Its these comments that we should not allow ourselves become a victim to. What works for me is to not pay attention to the negative remarks. Look at negativity as a way we can challenge ourselves to become better. Think of it as a reminder to keep building your craft. To exercise your talent and creative thinking. Take those comments are learn from it, to only make us better at what we do. Therefore helping us grow and become better creative individuals.

            When we start to compare ourselves to other people we step into dangerous territory. Basically setting ourselves up for failure, because you’re taking what another person can do and seeing how great your work matches up to it. Try avoiding comparison as much as possible because it will only bring you down. Instead of comparing, try looking at another person’s work as inspiration and motivation to keep thriving. Keep in mind some artist’s have more experience and have strengthen their skills throughout their life. Just because your work does not look like theirs does not mean you’re any less than them. Keep practicing and trying new things, that’s the only way you can grow. Look past these problems and try to learn something you can benefit from.